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I finished up the book this afternoon, and gave it a three-star rating.

It was interesting for me to see Nora's grief process, and her getting to live a little bit now that Maurice wasn't there to tell her no. I recall a story with my own Grandparents where my Grandmother would never wear anything red and purple because my Grandfather felt those were colors a "lady of the night" would wear. After he passed away, my Grandmother went out and bought a red and purple sweat suit that she wore to aerobics (she was in her late 80's at the time)!

I felt like Nora was a bit selfish at times with running off to her singing lessons, record club, drinking with her friend, etc., but maybe that is what she needed. I appreciate the insights shared on previous posts that this book is somewhat autobriographical of Colm Toibin's life growing up. I think that helps shed some light on Nora's actions.

What did you all think of the ending?

Spoiler:

I can understand getting rid of Maurice's old clothes, but I was a bit surprised Nora burned his letters. I would think she might want to keep some of his ties or things to pass on to his sons, and I would also think the letters might be something dear to her.

I guess by giving everything away and burning the letters, she is finally getting free of Maurice's presence in her life.

I could see her getting romantically involved again with someone especially since she bought her new dress and was putting on make-up. I didn't get the vibe she was trying to steal Fiona's boyfriend though, but it seemed important to Nora to feel pretty again.